How do you find your birth parents without hurting or offending your adoptive parents?

Answer Yes ==but there isa more money in not adopting the kid. I would think it over. STATED BY AUTHOR

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Adoptive parents, prospective adoptive parents and adoptees?

At the risk of being stoned to death, I will respectfully submit that I will give MY medical history to my son lost to adoption, but will put a note in my file at the agency that under no circumsta... Read More »

Adoptive Parents, what do you believe to be the biggest misconception about you/other Adoptive Parents?

Wow. Fantastic question. I would echo what the other APs have said on here.That we did something illegal or evil by adopting.That our motivations were either to be saviors, or to be trendy.That w... Read More »

Adoptees: does it bother you that your birth certificate lists your adoptive parents as your natural ones?

Who cares how a mother raised a kid - it's birth certificate....hullo??? Don't call the woman a mother if it's that difficult to think of the woman that birthed you as a "mother" - but that woman g... Read More »

Is there any support for adoptive parents whose daughter has traced and is meeting her birth mother today?